On Tuesday, user Sar0025 shared a note sent out by one bride and groom explaining their situation…
It read: “As much as we would love for you to attend, sadly, our venue cannot accommodate everyone. We are sure to keep you in our hearts in this celebration of love. If you would like to congratulate the bride and groom, rather than a registry, they are accepting money to aid in a beautiful honeymoon.”
Posted in the social forum’s Wedding Shaming group, their request has gone viral with more than 9,000 upvotes and over 450 comments.
Most users had critical reactions to the completely absurd request.
“This is so tacky. Why would I send them something if I’m not even invited?” one said.
“Don’t these people realize that weddings are already an expensive enough time for guests such as taking the day off work, childcare, clothes, money spent on the day, taxis or accommodation, present etc. without pressure being put on them to pay for the honeymoon and other things the bride and groom might get into their head they want?” another agreed.
“Since when did these days turn from a joyous occasion to share with your family to a fundraising event to make as much money as you can?” another moaned.
Sar0025, the original poster, seemed to agree that the problem wasn’t that the couple hoped to receive money for the special trip, but the fact that they specifically solicited those who would not be attending the nuptials.
HOW TACKY?
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